Sunday, August 29, 2010

Knock Knock Am Looking To Marry !!!!

Well.. Do you think.. The title is quite strange,,,  Of course it is..!!
This is the quote which came to my mind.. When I think of the  “ MARRIAGE SYSTEM “  we follow in INDIA .
Young girls.. As in girls when they pass 22, 23, 24.. its always been an procedure they are supposed to follow to get married
Step 1 : Take an photo (Where physical appearances plays an role)
Step 2 : Pass to matrimonial websites , Relatives etc etc.. (Gosh ! does it sound the girls are being promoted.. we are not products…)
Step 3 : Prepare horoscope.. (Where an unknown guy tells about my future.. sounds funny…)
Step 4 : Learn cooking . .blah blah blah.. Mom always says most important is cooking.. cooking  jus an basic  necessity not an major criteria.. (I feel at times are they preparing me as an full time servent for someone.. lol.. )
Step 5 : Status , Educational Background , Looks, caste . .Dark or fair ..
Step 6 : Highlighting the positives of an girl . .
Step 7 : Finally set to sell..
Well.. I do agree with this.. but does not it sound.. how foolish is the idea to find an life partner who is gona be heart and sole of the girl.. As fa as I concern.. Marriage is all about truthfulness, love , care, emotions, understanding , Ofcourse money is important.. a good job.. carrier match..
Am really confused.. Where is all our mind.. what are we looking for in the name of marriage ? If the procedure continues.. INDIAN girls have to keep an banner on hand telling “KNOCK KNOCK I AM LOOKINGTO MARRY” 
But what does it deal with the horoscope.. status , caste, color, .. I really don’t understand..!!!! Does it favoring all the couples. Some do stay happy jus by luck.. many do stay happy by sacrificing . . rest are on the entrance of Court for DIVorce. Its time to think .. Time for the freedom to choose the best.. and save the rest of the life.. GIRLS's Wakeup..
Ridiculous but still it’s an truth.. !!